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Lila Nyx

Location United States, Oakland

Last active: 06 Apr 2023

Hi, my name is Lila and I am a Professional Dominatrix, Sensual Muse and Mythic Kink Journey Facilitator. I invite you to experience the aliveness, pleasure, and freedom that comes from submitting to my dominant desires.

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Gender:
Female
Orientation:
Pansexual
Accommodates:
Men   Women   Couples
Nationality:
American
Availability:
Incalls and Outcalls
Hair:
Brunette
Eyes:
Hazel
Physique:
Athletic
Ethnicity:
White
Smoker:
No
Bust Size:
34B Natural
Dress Size:
34 (eu)
Shoe Size:
39 (eu)
Height:
5'3 - 160cm
Weight:
54 (kg)

About me

I blend my background in psychology, conscious communication practices, body work, energy work, and expressive movement, with my career as a professional dominatrix, to create containers that support radical acceptance, self expression, and erotic wholeness. My work is trauma-informed and I love supporting people to experience slowness and safety as you learn more about your body, your desires, your boundaries, and your relationships.

I also have a background in shadow work and nature-based soul work, which means I am deeply curious and adept at how our work together can support you to feel more awareness, more clarity, and more integration of all the parts of you, as a soul in a body, in relationship with other humans and the natural world. My coaching work has a strong focus on connecting with soul through the body.

Some of my favorite conscious kink activities are role plays, se...

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I blend my background in psychology, conscious communication practices, body work, energy work, and expressive movement, with my career as a professional dominatrix, to create containers that support radical acceptance, self expression, and erotic wholeness. My work is trauma-informed and I love supporting people to experience slowness and safety as you learn more about your body, your desires, your boundaries, and your relationships.

I also have a background in shadow work and nature-based soul work, which means I am deeply curious and adept at how our work together can support you to feel more awareness, more clarity, and more integration of all the parts of you, as a soul in a body, in relationship with other humans and the natural world. My coaching work has a strong focus on connecting with soul through the body.

Some of my favorite conscious kink activities are role plays, sensual domination, impact play, light bondage, foot and boot worship, sensory deprivation, wrestling and breath play. I also love exploring what I like to call "the technology of fantasy," where we engage with your fantasies much like dreamwork. We get curious together about the materials of your fantasy to bring you deeper understanding of your soul-level dreams and desires, and what patterns or obstacles stand in the way of creating and experiencing what you want in your life.

Policies

Booking

You may inquire about a session with me via my application form, email or text only.

Those who fill out the application will be prioritized for appointment times.

I do not receive phone calls without an appointment. If I have to tell you more than once to not call me unsolicited, you will be permanently blocked.

When you message me, let me know which city you would like to book a session in, 1-3 activities you are interested in, what length of session you would like, and include your references or alternate form of identity verification: a photo of your ID - all identifying information other than your name and photo can be blurred out - and a link to an active social media page, personal, or professional website. All information is kept confidential and only used to verify your identity. I respect your privacy in the same way I expect you to respect mine.

My rates are non-negotiable. If you have sincere financial need, you may send a resume with your skill set and ask if I have a need for your skills in partial trade. If you are a woman; queer, trans, gender fluid or non-binary person, a BIPOC, or otherwise marginalized identity, please ask about scholarship or sliding scale options.

I love virtual sessions. I offer phone, text and email sessions. I do not offer video sessions at this time, unless we have a long-term established rapport of trust. I have secure, encrypted platforms for us to virtually session through, should that be a requirement for you. Should you desire regular text and/or email communication between sessions, beyond the occasional thank you or session prep email, I am available for that in the context of paid text sessions, or a package structure only.

Once we have confirmed an appointment time, I will send you deposit information. I require a $150 deposit to hold your appointment for first time clients. I accept CashApp, Venmo and Amazon gift cards. Fly Me To You and long-term immersion packages require a 25% deposit. The balance should be brought in cash in an envelope and handed to me upon arrival. Should you need to use an alternate form of payment for the balance, please make your request before arriving to the appointment.

 

Cancellation

If you cancel with less than 48 hours notice, you can reschedule your appointment for within one month's time and apply your deposit to your rescheduled session. If you do not reschedule you forfeit your deposit.

If you cancel with less than 24 hours notice, you forfeit half of your deposit and can apply the other half to the deposit of a future session, scheduled within one month's time. If you do not reschedule you forfeit your deposit.

If you cancel within 12 hours notice you forfeit your deposit and will need to send another deposit to secure a future session.

If you cancel within 4 hours notice you will be expected to pay the entire session fee before being allowed to book another session.

A last minute cancellation means that you have taken an appointment that could have gone to someone else, which has a financial and scheduling impact on me, and is treated as such.

In rare cases of sickness such as COVID, death of a loved one, or emergency, you may be allowed to transfer your deposit to a future session with less than 24 hours notice.

Once you become a regular and have proven your reliability, I do not require a deposit to reserve an appointment. I will let you know when you cross that threshold. Should you break this trust once, you will be required to submit deposits for all future sessions.

Services Offered

Age Play

Body Worship

Bondage

Boxing

Breath Play

CBT

Chastity Control

Corporal Punishment

Costumes

Crossdressing

Cuddling

Edging

Face Sitting

Face Slapping

Fantasy Wrestling

Financial Domination

Foot Fetish

Forced Bi

Hosiery

Humiliation

Interrogations

Orgasm Denial

Pin Wrestling

Role Play

Scissoring

Semi Comp Wrestling

Sensory Deprivation

Smoking

Spanking

SPH

Spitting

Tickling

Trampling

Virtual Sessions

Water Sports

Wax Play

Whipping