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A financial dominatrix? also reffered to as findom, is a form of BDSM where the finsub willingly sends money or gifts to their findom goddess as part of a power play dynamic. Findom is a sexual fetish where the act of giving up finances is the ultimate form of submission. Financial domination focuses on the power exchange between the financial slave and the dominant. The dominant exerts control and authority over the submissive through actions such as receiving tributes, paying bills, funding shopping trips, creating loan agreements, and other financial activities.

Individuals who have a findom kink are commonly referred to as "paypigs," "finsubs," "cash cows," "money slaves," and "human ATMs" within the BDSM community.

Is Financial Domination Illegal?

Pay pigs, mostly men, enjoy the thrill of financial domination by women. Findom is just one of hundreds of fetishes and kinks. The legality of women practicing findom depends on the laws in your country.

In most countries, actions like blackmailing, stealing, and extorting money without consent are illegal and can result in jail time. While activities such as giving tributes, paying bills, and going on shopping trips may be consensual. Accessing someone else's account or using their credit card without permission could be considered fraud.

If you are interested in exploring the fetish findom, it is important to start slowly and never give out your banking information, credit card numbers, or passwords to accounts under any circumstances.

Examples of a Findom Relationship

The Tribute

A tribute is a simple act where a male who has a financial fetish sends a gift or money to their dominatrix as a sign of submission and devotion. It goes beyond just the financial aspect, as it symbolises giving up control and showing appreciation. Tributes are a foundational aspect of financial domination and serve as a way to start the dynamic. Some dominatrixes offering findom may request a tribute before engaging further with you.

Bill adoption

This is form of financial submission where the sub takes over the responsibility for paying one or more bills for their mistress. This can range from smaller bills like a Netflix subscription or electric bill, to larger financial obligations like rent or mortgage payments. This type of financial domination requires a level of commitment and ongoing involvement, as the pay slave must continue to cover the bill or bills on a regular basis.

Financial Control

findom, paypig, financial slave, human atmIn this dynamic, the domme takes charge of the sub's financial independence by setting a monthly or weekly budget and dictating how it should be spent. The sub must seek permission before making any purchases, and the domme may even have full access to their bank account. This type of financial domination is usually reserved for more experienced subs.

An experienced finsub may have a separate bank account where they can add their domme as a joint account holder, giving them full control over the sub's spending. The domme can then add their phone number to the account, allowing them to receive OTP (one-time password) requests for any purchase authorisations.

Findom Shopping 

Shopping is great a way for a Domme to exercise control and power over their submissive by requesting a shopping trip where the sub is expected to pay for whatever the Domme chooses. This can be done in person or virtually, depending on geographical constraints. It's not just about spending money; it's about the Domme making decisions for the sub and further establishing their financial dominance over them.

If possible, a real-life shopping trip can also serve as a bonding experience and a way to spend quality time together while the sub spoils their Dominant partner.

Debt Contract

In this formal financial arrangement, the submissive voluntarily agrees to be in debt to the dominant for a specified amount of money. The repayment terms can be flexible, potentially involving interest or additional conditions. It is essential that all parties should give their consent and have a thorough comprehension of the agreed-upon terms before entering into such an arrangement.

Where Can I Find a Findom?

Are you seeking a financial dominatrix? Directories like BadKity specialise in BDSM and feature profiles of femdoms catering to various fetishes. Other avenues for finding femdoms include websites such as FetlifeOnlyFansLoyalFans, and Twitter. Most femdoms who actively practice findom advertise their services on social media, with Twitter being a preferred platform due to its allowance for adult content.

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